Monday, January 24, 2011
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Todd Lynn on "Relationships"
LOL "monkey-bar" lmbo I think this is funny, what are your thoughts about this video? is the monkey bar analogy true?
American Idol- Funny Auditions Season 9 2010
I miss simon as a judge, season 10 has the same wannabe singers and weirdos as the previous seasons, but its not the same without simon.
Saturday, January 22, 2011
LOVE
LOVE. LOVE . LOVE. It feels so good when it’s with the right person at the right time. Love is something that everyone longs for; it’s a part of our basic needs. Timing is everything when it comes to experiencing true love. To experience the true essence of love you have to be emotionally, spiritually and mentally fit. Ask yourself am I ready for love? Have I gotten rid of the baggage and self-defeating thoughts that are weighing me down emotionally, spiritually and mentally? Have I found love within myself or am I expecting to find it with someone else?
Some people are afraid to be alone so they rush into relationships hoping to fill the void of loneliness and expecting they will find love. Unfortunately, they are mistakenly wrong; instead of obtaining love they end up heartbroken and feeling worse than they did before getting into the relationship. Why is this? It’s because people fail to realize that they must first fall in love with themselves before loving another human being. If you do not know how to love yourself, how are you going to love someone else? If you are afraid to be alone with yourself it’s probably because you have not learned to love yourself.
Loving yourself is more than getting your hair, nails, or buying material things that bring you temporary happiness. Self-Love is a permanent transformation from within. It involves getting rid of those negative messages that you received as a child and cleaning out your spirit. It also involves eliminating people out of your life who do not promote self-love instead they play on your insecurities and weakness and use it to their advantage.
The advantage of loving yourself is not allowing anyone to determine your worth or define who you are, but knowing that you are worthy enough to walk away from all things that are not adding value to your life. You see when you love yourself you learn to put yourself first, you learn to feel good about who you are no matter what people say, you learn to do the things that make you happy, you know how to make yourself happy with or without the presence of other people. Most importantly you know that the only one you should aim to please is God because he is the definition of LOVE. If you want to have a better understanding of how to love your-self and others read (1 Corinthians 13).
“LOVE IS THE GREATEST GIFT DON’T CONFUSE IT WITH LUST”
“LOVE WITHOUT FAITH & TRUST ISNT LOVE AT ALL”
“IN ORDER TO EXPERIENCE TRUE LOVE YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO LOVE FEARLESSLY”
~God Bless, Keep the Faith, Love Ms. Kinsey~
Some people are afraid to be alone so they rush into relationships hoping to fill the void of loneliness and expecting they will find love. Unfortunately, they are mistakenly wrong; instead of obtaining love they end up heartbroken and feeling worse than they did before getting into the relationship. Why is this? It’s because people fail to realize that they must first fall in love with themselves before loving another human being. If you do not know how to love yourself, how are you going to love someone else? If you are afraid to be alone with yourself it’s probably because you have not learned to love yourself.
Loving yourself is more than getting your hair, nails, or buying material things that bring you temporary happiness. Self-Love is a permanent transformation from within. It involves getting rid of those negative messages that you received as a child and cleaning out your spirit. It also involves eliminating people out of your life who do not promote self-love instead they play on your insecurities and weakness and use it to their advantage.
The advantage of loving yourself is not allowing anyone to determine your worth or define who you are, but knowing that you are worthy enough to walk away from all things that are not adding value to your life. You see when you love yourself you learn to put yourself first, you learn to feel good about who you are no matter what people say, you learn to do the things that make you happy, you know how to make yourself happy with or without the presence of other people. Most importantly you know that the only one you should aim to please is God because he is the definition of LOVE. If you want to have a better understanding of how to love your-self and others read (1 Corinthians 13).
“LOVE IS THE GREATEST GIFT DON’T CONFUSE IT WITH LUST”
“LOVE WITHOUT FAITH & TRUST ISNT LOVE AT ALL”
“IN ORDER TO EXPERIENCE TRUE LOVE YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO LOVE FEARLESSLY”
~God Bless, Keep the Faith, Love Ms. Kinsey~
Thursday, January 20, 2011
SAVE OUR BLACK MEN & COMMUNITY
Why are so many black men dying? Seem like every time I watch the news there is a sad story about another young black man who was murdered. Even worse 85 percent of the time the perpetrator of the crime is also black. We can’t blame the "white man", we are killing each other. What will it take for black people to come together and stop the violence? It saddens me to think that if the violence does not end soon our black men will become extinct. Some people may think that’s a bit far- fetched; but I believe it is truly possible. According to statistics, blacks represent 13 percent of the U.S. population. This percentage is a small number considering that there are approximately 312 million people in the U.S. Not to mention, the availability of positive black men in the community is scarce. There are more black men incarcerated than any other race. There are also more black men who are unemployed and come from single parent households. It’s evident that there are risk factors associated with violence in the black community; however, not much is being done to prevent black on black crimes and reduce the overall prevalence of violence in the community as a whole.
I believe 'we' as black people need to be proactive in our community and speak up about putting an end to violence in our community. Don’t wait until the news broadcasters arrive on the scene of the crime to speak up, SPEAK UP NOW! We need to write letters to the mayor, the governor and even our president demanding that something be done. We are the ones who elect the politicians into office so we need to hold them accountable to helping us make our communities a safe place to live.
Everyone deserves to live in a peaceful and safe environment regardless of race, economic status or geographical location. There is nothing worse than hearing helicopters flying over your house and gun shots outside of your window while you are trying to enjoy dinner with your family. I am tired of seeing the "Rest in Peace T-shirts", tired of watching the sad homicide stories on the news, tired of our black men dying and our black women crying and I am tired of the "no snitching rule." It's time to do something different, let’s come together and make a difference in our community.
~God Bless, Keep the FAITH, luv Ms. Kinsey~
I believe 'we' as black people need to be proactive in our community and speak up about putting an end to violence in our community. Don’t wait until the news broadcasters arrive on the scene of the crime to speak up, SPEAK UP NOW! We need to write letters to the mayor, the governor and even our president demanding that something be done. We are the ones who elect the politicians into office so we need to hold them accountable to helping us make our communities a safe place to live.
Everyone deserves to live in a peaceful and safe environment regardless of race, economic status or geographical location. There is nothing worse than hearing helicopters flying over your house and gun shots outside of your window while you are trying to enjoy dinner with your family. I am tired of seeing the "Rest in Peace T-shirts", tired of watching the sad homicide stories on the news, tired of our black men dying and our black women crying and I am tired of the "no snitching rule." It's time to do something different, let’s come together and make a difference in our community.
~God Bless, Keep the FAITH, luv Ms. Kinsey~
Sunday, January 9, 2011
Fun Times
Akon & young sheek at the Improv Comedy show in Fortlauderdale, Fl. Eddie Griffin was the featured comic and he was hella funny. If you've never seen Eddie live I highly recommend you check him out. #livingmylife2thefullest
Saturday, October 2, 2010
WHAT "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" REALLY MEANS
I decided to write this blog to give men a better understanding of why some women say they have a boyfriend when they really do not. I hope that this blog will help you gain insight into the mind of a woman who is not interested in you. This is not a “put a man down/man hater blog” it is a blog to encourage you to move on and not become one of those desperate beasty men who do not understand what I HAVE A BOYFRIEND MEAN.LOL…
Okay fellas when a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, it can mean two things; One she REALLY has a boyfriend and in that case is not interested in dating you or TWO she DOES NOT have a boyfriend and still not interested in dating you. So if the latter statement is true, you might be wondering, why would a female tell you she has a boyfriend if she really does not? It’s simple. Most females understand that it takes a lot of courage for a man to approach a woman and ask for a date or for the 7digits (LOL) so if we are not attracted to you, but do not want to be the MEAN girl that hurts your feelings or crush your ego, we say we have a boyfriend. It’s really simple, so do not make it complex. You see fellas we are looking out for your feelings. Would you rather hear a woman say, “I don’t like you or I have a boyfriend”? Most of you guys are probably thinking, “She should be honest and just say she does not like me”. The problem with being honest is some men cannot handle the truth, nowadays if you tell a man you do not like him, he is ready to call you a BIT@CH and all types of foul words. Women are tired of getting cursed out for telling the truth so we take the easy way out and say “I have a boyfriend”
Fellas, Let me let you in on a little secret that most women won’t tell you or admit to. Women know from the moment they meet a guy whether they want to be friends or more than friends. I’ve heard some women say that they know when they first meet a guy whether or not they will have sex with him. So fellas a woman’s mind is made up before you get a chance to say anything. Most of the time its best if you don’t say anything because you might say something that will put you on the “forever friend list”…LOL , that’s right women have a “ forever friends list” it’s every man nightmare to be on that list, especially if the woman is attractive.
So what’s the solution? If you don’t want to be on the “forever friends list” or you do not want another single woman to tell you “I have a boyfriend.” I suggest that you do the following: if you are not that attractive, but you have a good personality, I suggest you use your sense of humor to lure her in. Now I am not saying walk up to her with a corny joke or acting like a clown… NO! What I am saying is you should play it cool and when the opportunity is right walk up to her and make her laugh. Do not try to be mister funny guy if she is with all of her friends, wait until she is alone and looking like she needs someone to talk too. Okay, now if you are attractive, LOSE the cocky attitude, attractive guys get turned down too. An attractive guy has to pretend like he’s not attractive if he wants to get a woman attention especially if she is attractive. One thing I cannot stand is a cocky arrogant man who thinks that he can get any woman he wants. Believe it or not those men are the ones who hear “I have a boyfriend” a lot because their ego needs to be deflated. So PLAY IT COOL PLAYA! THERE IS A WOMAN OUT THERE FOR YOU!
~God bless, Keep the FAITH, love Miss Kinsey~
Okay fellas when a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, it can mean two things; One she REALLY has a boyfriend and in that case is not interested in dating you or TWO she DOES NOT have a boyfriend and still not interested in dating you. So if the latter statement is true, you might be wondering, why would a female tell you she has a boyfriend if she really does not? It’s simple. Most females understand that it takes a lot of courage for a man to approach a woman and ask for a date or for the 7digits (LOL) so if we are not attracted to you, but do not want to be the MEAN girl that hurts your feelings or crush your ego, we say we have a boyfriend. It’s really simple, so do not make it complex. You see fellas we are looking out for your feelings. Would you rather hear a woman say, “I don’t like you or I have a boyfriend”? Most of you guys are probably thinking, “She should be honest and just say she does not like me”. The problem with being honest is some men cannot handle the truth, nowadays if you tell a man you do not like him, he is ready to call you a BIT@CH and all types of foul words. Women are tired of getting cursed out for telling the truth so we take the easy way out and say “I have a boyfriend”
Fellas, Let me let you in on a little secret that most women won’t tell you or admit to. Women know from the moment they meet a guy whether they want to be friends or more than friends. I’ve heard some women say that they know when they first meet a guy whether or not they will have sex with him. So fellas a woman’s mind is made up before you get a chance to say anything. Most of the time its best if you don’t say anything because you might say something that will put you on the “forever friend list”…LOL , that’s right women have a “ forever friends list” it’s every man nightmare to be on that list, especially if the woman is attractive.
So what’s the solution? If you don’t want to be on the “forever friends list” or you do not want another single woman to tell you “I have a boyfriend.” I suggest that you do the following: if you are not that attractive, but you have a good personality, I suggest you use your sense of humor to lure her in. Now I am not saying walk up to her with a corny joke or acting like a clown… NO! What I am saying is you should play it cool and when the opportunity is right walk up to her and make her laugh. Do not try to be mister funny guy if she is with all of her friends, wait until she is alone and looking like she needs someone to talk too. Okay, now if you are attractive, LOSE the cocky attitude, attractive guys get turned down too. An attractive guy has to pretend like he’s not attractive if he wants to get a woman attention especially if she is attractive. One thing I cannot stand is a cocky arrogant man who thinks that he can get any woman he wants. Believe it or not those men are the ones who hear “I have a boyfriend” a lot because their ego needs to be deflated. So PLAY IT COOL PLAYA! THERE IS A WOMAN OUT THERE FOR YOU!
~God bless, Keep the FAITH, love Miss Kinsey~
Friday, September 17, 2010
WRITERS BLOCK WILL NOT STOP ME!
I have been writing a book for over a year now and it is a difficult task. I often get writers block and I am starting to second guess myself on this project. I know that with time I will be able to fulfill this goal of mine, but I pray that God gives me the wisdom and knowledge to complete what I have started. I was researching online tips on how to be a great writer and one of the tips was to write and read everyday for at least an hour. Today, I am dedicating my hour to talk about my desire to finish this book. Listed below is what I hope to accomplish by writing this book.
1. I hope to leave a legacy behind for my family to cherish; in my opinion, a book is a legacy because words are everlasting and can change the way people think about the world around them.
2. I hope to encourage men and women to find themselves, discover who they are, and fall in love with themselves and God before committing to another person or getting into a relationship.
3. Lastly, this book serves as motivation for me. I know that I can achieve anything that I put my mind to... as long as God is in the midst, I cannot fail.
I believe in myself, I have accomplished many goals and I will accomplish this too!!
God bless me! I will keep the FAITH!!!
~Ms.Kinsey~
1. I hope to leave a legacy behind for my family to cherish; in my opinion, a book is a legacy because words are everlasting and can change the way people think about the world around them.
2. I hope to encourage men and women to find themselves, discover who they are, and fall in love with themselves and God before committing to another person or getting into a relationship.
3. Lastly, this book serves as motivation for me. I know that I can achieve anything that I put my mind to... as long as God is in the midst, I cannot fail.
I believe in myself, I have accomplished many goals and I will accomplish this too!!
God bless me! I will keep the FAITH!!!
~Ms.Kinsey~
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