Top Five Reasons Men Dont Commit

Men aren’t committing to relationships these days and I will tell you top five reasons why they are not committing.

1. Too many women accepting casual relationships: Nowadays having casual sex is easier than getting a taxi cab to stop for you in New York City. It seems like everyone doing it. More women are signing up for one-night stand than they are signing up for marriage. The crazy part is they want marriage after giving up the booty on first night or after accepting the causal relationship for years. Ladies don’t ask for a ring if you already gave up the milk & cookies for free. Stand firm in your morals & values and make him work for it. It may be tough, but it will be worth it in the end, if he doesn’t respect your standards the next man will.

2. Financial unstable: most men will tell you upfront that they are not ready for relationship or long term commitment because they aren’t financially stable or because they haven’t started their career yet. Ladies no woman wants a broke man so you have to respect his honesty. Give him time to get his shhhh(shut your mouth lol) together. Now if he is one of those guys that are full of dreams and no action to back up his dreams then drop him because he is going nowhere fast. A lot of men talk about having money or wanting more money, but very few of them actually will go extra mile and do whatever it takes to get a job. Some let their pride get in the way. They will not accept a job that they feel are beneath them, however they remain jobless and broke. If you anything like me, I respect a working man. I could care less where he works as long as he has legitimate employment. A working man is sexy, women value a provider and every man should want to provide.

3. Fear & Lack of FAITH: usually where there is fear there is a lack of faith. Men, who lack faith, typically have million excuses why marriage and commitment is not for them. They will tell you they know men who are married and cheat on their wife. They will tell you that they don’t want a woman to get half their money or alimony if it ends in divorce. They will say they think marriage is overrated and don’t want to be lock down. Trust me, I’ve heard it all!!! The reality is they lack FAITH...their morals are questionable and most don’t go church, read bible or believe in GOD. The bible says “a man that finds a wife, finds a good thing." it doesn’t say don’t do it because bad things are going to happen. We can project all day and say what might happen, but truth is FAITH & LOVE conquers all...step your faith up and stop fearing things...

4. Level of Maturity: maturity does not have anything to do with age, usually has more to do with experience. I know a few young brothers who have experienced healthy relationships directly or indirectly and values commitment because of those experiences. I also know some brothers who are afraid to grow up because of the responsibility that comes along with growing up. They want the woman but don’t want the responsibilities of commitment. It’s too challenging for them, they are used to taking easy way out (casual relationship). When a man reaches a certain level of maturity nothing in the world will stop him from committing to one woman.

5. Have not found the one: Truth be told, most men aren’t committing because they just haven’t found the right one. Yes they may like a lot of girls, but the one that make them want to settle down haven’t crossed their path yet. Sometimes they don’t even know what type of woman they want so in meantime they mingle with all type of women. Some men are in discovery stage still trying to figure out what they want out life. Ladies, respect it, but don’t settle with an indecisive man. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.

This is my personal opinion and top 5 reasons why men don’t commit? What are your top five? Do you agree or disagree with this blog?

God Bless, Keep the FAITH love Ms. Kinsey