WHAT "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" REALLY MEANS

I decided to write this blog to give men a better understanding of why some women say they have a boyfriend when they really do not. I hope that this blog will help you gain insight into the mind of a woman who is not interested in you. This is not a “put a man down/man hater blog” it is a blog to encourage you to move on and not become one of those desperate beasty men who do not understand what I HAVE A BOYFRIEND MEAN.LOL…

Okay fellas when a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, it can mean two things; One she REALLY has a boyfriend and in that case is not interested in dating you or TWO she DOES NOT have a boyfriend and still not interested in dating you. So if the latter statement is true, you might be wondering, why would a female tell you she has a boyfriend if she really does not? It’s simple. Most females understand that it takes a lot of courage for a man to approach a woman and ask for a date or for the 7digits (LOL) so if we are not attracted to you, but do not want to be the MEAN girl that hurts your feelings or crush your ego, we say we have a boyfriend. It’s really simple, so do not make it complex. You see fellas we are looking out for your feelings. Would you rather hear a woman say, “I don’t like you or I have a boyfriend”? Most of you guys are probably thinking, “She should be honest and just say she does not like me”. The problem with being honest is some men cannot handle the truth, nowadays if you tell a man you do not like him, he is ready to call you a BIT@CH and all types of foul words. Women are tired of getting cursed out for telling the truth so we take the easy way out and say “I have a boyfriend”

Fellas, Let me let you in on a little secret that most women won’t tell you or admit to. Women know from the moment they meet a guy whether they want to be friends or more than friends. I’ve heard some women say that they know when they first meet a guy whether or not they will have sex with him. So fellas a woman’s mind is made up before you get a chance to say anything. Most of the time its best if you don’t say anything because you might say something that will put you on the “forever friend list”…LOL , that’s right women have a “ forever friends list” it’s every man nightmare to be on that list, especially if the woman is attractive.

So what’s the solution? If you don’t want to be on the “forever friends list” or you do not want another single woman to tell you “I have a boyfriend.” I suggest that you do the following: if you are not that attractive, but you have a good personality, I suggest you use your sense of humor to lure her in. Now I am not saying walk up to her with a corny joke or acting like a clown… NO! What I am saying is you should play it cool and when the opportunity is right walk up to her and make her laugh. Do not try to be mister funny guy if she is with all of her friends, wait until she is alone and looking like she needs someone to talk too. Okay, now if you are attractive, LOSE the cocky attitude, attractive guys get turned down too. An attractive guy has to pretend like he’s not attractive if he wants to get a woman attention especially if she is attractive. One thing I cannot stand is a cocky arrogant man who thinks that he can get any woman he wants. Believe it or not those men are the ones who hear “I have a boyfriend” a lot because their ego needs to be deflated. So PLAY IT COOL PLAYA! THERE IS A WOMAN OUT THERE FOR YOU!

~God bless, Keep the FAITH, love Miss Kinsey~