Hello Fellas! This blog is for you (particularly for single men). I will keep this simple and straight to the point because I know men have short attention spans (lol hahaha! I really love you guys). The first thing that came to mind when I started writing this blog is how can I help the guys? I am always encouraging and uplifting women. I said to myself, “what is one thing that men struggle with the most when dealing with women?” the first thought that popped into my head was “approaching women.” Now most of you men are probably thinking, “nah sheek, I don’t have that problem; I’m a G, I got game, I know how to get a lady” Bull Crap! At some point all of you men were afraid to approach a woman because fear of rejection. Please let me help you and give you a better understanding from a woman’s perspective so that you can reduce your chances of being rejected. Let’s be clear, I am not speaking for all women, but I am sure that most women will agree with what I am about to say. Below are 5 easy steps that all men should follow before approaching a woman that you’re interested in. Be sure to read brief explanation after each step.
1. First thing you need to do is check yourself before approaching her. Take a quick look at yourself and ask yourself: DO I like the way I look today? How do I smell? (Is my breath fresh, hygiene right, etc)
Explanation: If you don’t like the way you look, chances are she don’t either. Men should always wear cologne because smelling good draws a woman closer to you…even if you’re not looking your best, if you smell good she will have something positive to say( she will say, “at least he smell good”…lol)
2. Think about what you are going to say before approaching her and eliminate these words from your vocabulary: what’s good ma? Can I holla at you for a minute? You fine can I get your number? All that immature language is annoying…
Explanation: The first thing you say out of your mouth will determine if she rejects you.
I would suggest you say something like this: Excuse me, what’s your name? I see you around here a lot and I was curious about you…okay this is situational, but I’m sure she would want to know what your curiosity is about which will lead to follow up question…at least you got her attention now
3. Be confident: A confident man can have any girl that he wants. Women think confident men are so sexy (at least that’s what I think LOL). A confident man is comfortable in his own skin. He has a certain type of walk, talk, a sexy vibe just swag….You either have it or you don’t. The best way to exude confidence is to be you!
4. Make eye contact: if you make eye contact with a woman for longer than 15 seconds and she is gazing back into your eyes, please believe that she likes you, interested or feeling a certain type away about you
5. Keep it simple: When you approach a woman for first time keep the conversation short. If she shows interest in you and you want to talk to her again, I would suggest you ask: how can I keep in touch with you? Instead of asking can I have your phone number; Not all women want to give out their number
I know this list is simple and basic, but most men have difficult time following these basic steps when approaching women. I hope this list encourages men to come correct when approaching the ladies. If you have any questions or would like me to elaborate please leave a comment below
~God Bless, Keep the FAITH, luv Ms. Kinsey~
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