DO GOOD GUYS FINISH LAST?

Do good guys finish last? The answer to this question is contingent on how one defines a good guy. My definition of good guy is a man who is extremely nice for no apparent reason except for the fact that he was raised to respect women. A good guy will exercise his manners at all times. He is considerate, honest, loyal, and respectful. He will open up the doors for you, cook/clean for you, and talk to you in respectable manner without the use of profanity or other ignorant words. A good guy is charming and presentable. You can take him out in public and he will not embarrass you (LOL).

Most women want a good guy, but they want one that has a BACKBONE. In other words, he is not a pushover. There is a difference between a good guy and pushover. A pushover is a man that allows his woman to completely control the relationship. She tells him what he can and cannot do. His life revolves around her. She has to stand up for him when he is disrespected by others because he is too nice to stand up for himself. Once a man crosses the line of being a good guy to a push over his woman will leave him for a man that she feels will protect her.

Women tend to fall for the so called “bad guys” for several reasons. One reason happens to be because they believe the bad guys will protect them if anything should ever happen. For example; if a woman is in situation and she is scared or being violated by someone, she wants her man to stand up for her and take care of the situation if necessary. If you are a pushover your woman will feel as if she wears the pants and she has to protect you. Another reason why women fall for bad guys is because good guys are so predictable. Believe it or not women like a thrill or some type of excitement. If a woman knows what your next move is at all times she will begin to think that you are a boring person. Nobody wants to be with a boring person. The bad guys are always unpredictable you never know what they will do….it’s sad, but it’s the truth. Now don’t mistake what I am trying to say here…. I am not saying a woman wants an abusive man that will smack her around, cheat on her or some type thug that’s in/out jail. A real woman does not want that. She wants a man that is respectful, romantic, and knows how to keep the relationship exciting and new. Moreover, he can and will protect and provide for her.

The answer to the question above is NO! Good Guys do not finish last, PUSHOVERS finish last. If you are a good guy, I encourage you to continue to be a good guy and respect women. However, do not allow women to control your every move or take advantage of your kindness…Be a good guy and have a BACKBONE and you will find an incredible woman who will appreciate and love you.

~God bless, Keep the faith, love Ms. Kinsey~